I guess if it was those cards that makes things different.
But under normal circumstances? It's not OK. It's even less OK if you do it with the same person. That implies you're cheating with someone you should both be able to trust. Were all 3 times because of the Valentine's?
I always thought that if I ever had sex with someone, the more experienced partner would take the lead and perform the active, dominant role. Especially if they wanted it.
No. You haven't been hated. I thought that most people at least disliked me, and that a fair number hated me, but I was wrong. I've heard "hate" said to me so many times I've lost count, but never like that.
There happen to be a lot of things to worry about, at this time. I thought it would be better to work from the smaller problem to the bigger one.
If you don't think I've ever been hated go and ask Lucius Malfoy what he thinks of me.
If you honestly think he's going to murder you I think that needs to be what you focus on. Staying alive needs to be your priority even if you do come back here.
I see what you're trying to say, but a lot of the people I'm closest to have either killed me or tried to. Not to bring this up again, but that includes you. I'm not actually afraid of being killed; if I thought that was all he wanted I might even let him, but I don't believe that's the case.
I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm not sure why I contacted you. I realize now that I only sound disorganized.
You contacted me because you're having problems and you don't know how to deal with them on your own. It's OK. It's what friends do. Do you want me to go through what I think they are before we try to figure them out? That way we'll know if we're on the same page.
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Cheating doesn't just happen.
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What if both people cheated with the same person? Would an acceptable exercise in thought be to consider it a spiritual threesome?
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But under normal circumstances?
It's not OK.
It's even less OK if you do it with the same person.
That implies you're cheating with someone you should both be able to trust.
Were all 3 times because of the Valentine's?
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Do you know who AM is?
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He removed my parasite.
Isn't he an arachne?
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I don't think everyone felt like their surgeries went as well as mine did.
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He asked not to, but it doesn't sit right with me he went through with that.
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If it was a game, I won.
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The opposite is what ended up happening.
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Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for everyone.
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What makes you think he's going to kill you anyway?
Did he say that?
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You didn't exactly seem worried about murder.
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There happen to be a lot of things to worry about, at this time. I thought it would be better to work from the smaller problem to the bigger one.
<oliver>
If you honestly think he's going to murder you I think that needs to be what you focus on.
Staying alive needs to be your priority even if you do come back here.
<Linden>
I was going to just turn an oven on and crawl into it, but focusing on staying alive sounds like a good idea. I think I'll try that.
<oliver>
Stop being a jerk.
I'm trying to help you.
<Linden>
I'm not trying to be a jerk. I'm not sure why I contacted you. I realize now that I only sound disorganized.
<oliver>
I am sorry though.
You contacted me because you're having problems and you don't know how to deal with them on your own.
It's OK.
It's what friends do.
Do you want me to go through what I think they are before we try to figure them out?
That way we'll know if we're on the same page.
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